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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2025
10 points

honestly I'd rather stammer than scaring the shit outta people I talk to xd...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2025
0 points

This is why I'm seeking guidance. I think I'm screwed either way. I want to accommodate, but sometimes it isn't a "I want to choose to interrupt", but what if I'm in a rush? My point is sometimes the...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentListener ReactionsEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2025
3 points

not original commenter. But fear of your stutter can massively distort your views on how others react. And can also distort your view on how you react. Desensitize your fear of stuttering moments....

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
postr/StutterJun 24, 2025
10 points

I really can't take it anymore

I really can't take it anymore for some reason I'm in a place where I have to live with 16 people my age. they treat me well and don't say anything bad infront of me. But they all see me like a fool o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2025
-2 points

Yeah that's great, I hope I have proved I'm sensitive enough, now tell me... Does my pre-apology work? Or do I mentally count the seconds and keep waiting?? Can I say, "I know if I complete sentence...

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commentr/StutterJun 23, 2025
-4 points

As a non-stutterer, I am very nervous to talk to you all precisely because of this. I know the only way to do this respectfully is by just waiting for you to finish but God I am so impatient... (Which...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentListener ReactionsAudience Scale & Group Size
postr/StutterJun 23, 2025
7 points

I always think,that I'm gonna stutter

I always think,that I'm gonna stutter I always think,that I'm gonna stutter.When I'm opening my mouth,or it doesn't matter opened or not,firstly I analize the letter of all words in sentence I wanna s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2025
15 points

Yes, 100 times yes. The worst is when someone says “Slow down. Just slow down.” Ok, let me slap the back of your head while you try to speak and, should you struggle to get your thoughts out, I’ll tel...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2025
9 points

My favorite is "Try not to think about it" As if that never occurred to me, lol. It usually comes from a good place with good intentions, so it doesn't bother me that much anymore....

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 23, 2025
12 points

Stutter getting worse for no reason

Stutter getting worse for no reason I’m a 19F in university My stutter usually gets worse when I’m nervous but even when I’m not and talking to friends and stuff it gets worse and it’s like the words ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2025
2 points

Ofc, id just feel most comfortable with someone who shares my stutter. Maybe bc i feel inferior to people who dont and afraid of judgement from them....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2025
1 points

That's completely valid, having a speech disfluency can make it insanely hard to show off your personality if you have one and make you come across as boring and having people message you first and in...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2025
1 points

Practicing conversations with Kryvane actually helped me work through some anticipatory processing stuff before real social situations. Less pressure than talking to actual people while building confi...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2025
3 points

Thanks for sharing your interview experience. I totally agree with you. You should definitely disclose your speech impairment in an interview. And it does several things: 1. It takes a bit of the pre...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2025
1 points

:( I will try my best, I had stuttering but I managed to overcome it, it's a byproduct of stuttering. Its mostly due to my confidence....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 22, 2025
6 points

Please help

Please help I have an issue, I have an issue saying works like "thread" "electricity" mostly when I'm around people, because of "thr" in "thread" and "e" in "electricity". I usually I use a filler wor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterJun 22, 2025
6 points

Feeling envious

Feeling envious Can't stop envying other people that don't have a stutter, it must feel good having clear communication everyday ...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2025
1 points

Hey! Where about in the UK are you from? I'm from the Midlands and would love to chat. DM me! Also, easier said than done I know, but just push your anxiety to the deepest darkest corner of your mind...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2025
4 points

Hi :) I’m 26F, from India. I have stuttered since I was a kid as well. To be honest, as a woman I think one added twist is that I am expected to be more talkative and social in general. However, with ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2025
1 points

I heard it subconsciously tied into how you think others will think or view you. you have to take stuttering as like a panic attack. Once you feel like an episode is about to hit, go towards it.. In f...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride