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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2025
5 points

I always mention it at the beginning and say I'm just nervous, and that it tends to make it more obvious 😊 they tend to reassure me and it breaks the ice. Successfully interviewed many times! I say g...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentHumor & Community Tone
postr/StutterJul 9, 2025
14 points

I have a job interview—the most important one of my life—and I stammer. Should I bring it up?

I have a job interview—the most important one of my life—and I stammer. Should I bring it up? I have a huge job interview coming up—probably the most important one of my life. I stammer, especially un...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2025
3 points

I'm really sorry to hear that—it must feel incredibly isolating at times. I think many of us who have voice disorders carry the weight of being misunderstood or prematurely judged, especially in socia...

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Loneliness & IsolationValidation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2025
14 points

Stop. Your stutter is not the reason you don’t have a relationship. It’s your self esteem and attitude towards your stutter that prevents you from getting into a relationship....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterJul 8, 2025
17 points

How am I supposed to get a gf at 21M?

How am I supposed to get a gf at 21M? I've never dated or hardly done much because of my stutter and me feeling not deserving of love like that and I don't know how other stutterers even do it?...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2025
2 points

As you know, it's very complicated, all moments vary in fluency intensity. For me it's depending on with whom I'm speaking with, what subject, If they talk fast, I can feel it in my speech, but of cou...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Cycles & RandomnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2025
2 points

Yeah I have seen those jokes a lot. I hate how they act like stuttering is caused by anxiety. When I was a little kid I stuttered without any anxiety. The anxiety comes from people’s reactions and how...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating StutteringBlocks & Stoppages+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2025
2 points

Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. Yeah they just don’t wanna hear it because it wouldn’t mean them having to come to terms with their malpractice and treatment towards us....

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Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2025
2 points

I worded it that way because I wanted to hear a range of experiences, including from people who maybe weren’t affected much. But to be honest, I also just wanted to get this off my chest and rant a li...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2025
6 points

It's wrong question ig . Question should be how much stutter affected your confidence...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJul 8, 2025
24 points

Has your stutter affected your confidence?

Has your stutter affected your confidence? Hi everyone, I'm not officially diagnosed, but I've had trouble speaking clearly for as long as I can remember. I often get stuck on words, and sometimes pe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJul 8, 2025
6 points

Stutter- Anxiety Tips

Stutter- Anxiety Tips [https://stutterconnect.substack.com/p/how-i-beat-the-anxiety-that-came](https://stutterconnect.substack.com/p/how-i-beat-the-anxiety-that-came) Hi everyone, I have packed a ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2025
2 points

I remember being accused of lying, and being on drugs because I struggled to answer questions properly or explain myself....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2025
2 points

I feel ya friend. I've experienced all the above. I developed severe speech anxiety over it. Feeling like I had to rush my thoughts, afraid of being interrupted. Afraid of blocks in the middle of phra...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & StoppagesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2025
1 points

Exactly like me. Except it’s worse with males in my family, so my grandad and especially my dad (there’s some backstory there which definitely contributes). It has to be confidence related...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Family Support & ConflictAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2025
2 points

Then I get accused of not “putting myself out there.” I literally have, people just don’t want to believe how truly debilitating this condition is towards life. I put myself in such hard situations fo...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2025
2 points

Is it one or two percent though? I never ran into another stutterer in grade school and in college. Where are they then? I don’t think that 1-2% is real or it doesn’t refer to stuttering into adulthoo...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2025
3 points

The people who are the worst to us are always the ones who are the most insecure. Truly confident people I can tell do not mind. The problem is the majority of people are insecure. Hahaha that on drug...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2025
7 points

Yes I do. Sometimes I add a hard h before it, it helps sometimes but not every-time. Like: UHmerica, re-UHlection. It’s hard to explain, but it’s like forcing a bit of breath before the vowel to stop ...

Coping & AdvocacySpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesPhysical TensionAnticipating Stuttering+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2025
4 points

Hi F18 wanted to say that you are not the only one who feels this way. I'm going to a university open day tomorrow and a big part of it is talking to other people applying to my course. I'm really ner...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation