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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
2 points

My name starts with an E, and I can never get it out. If I can get past the E sound, I'm fine, but it usually takes me a full minute to get past that first letter. What I usually do is avoid the quest...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
2 points

I just cannot do any types of personal questions where there are no word substitutes. "First and Last name please?" "Where do you work?" "Where are you from?" Etc... I immediately lock up and can...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

This is good. Likely everyone already knows. Nobody gives a shit but you, OP. If it helps, apologize in advance and own it. Having cues to improvise from is helpful so you can adapt as you go. Don't s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
2 points

im the exact same way, tripped me out a little bit its almost like you took the words out of my head...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
3 points

Here's what I did. Senior year finally came I couldn't hold off on taking business communications any longer(class full of speeches and crap). First day of class during introductions I told everyone t...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

I work at a McAlisters Deli as a cashier and i know exactly what you mean and feel. I have this one older guy that comes in like every day that has a stutter too we love how irritated people get when ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

I just can't seem to be ok with stuttering. There are a few moments when I am ok with stuttering in a moment and I can calm down and just stutter easily but most of the time im uncontrollably trying s...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

I'm in the same boat brother, I was always the one who would sit at the back of the class (in the corner) and try hide behind the people in front of me so I would not get asked a question. I always dr...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

That's actually a good idea, find a name that you can say easily rather then saying your own which can be hard. My name is Ashley and I struggle to say it sometimes...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2014
1 points

I wish I could do this trick, instead I stutter because I feel bad about lying :-P...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2014
2 points

Yes i am having this exact problem. I've been stuttering since i was a kid but only recently have i started to have major problems with saying my own name. I have avoided introducing myself to people ...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2014
3 points

Yes a new job brings out the worst of my stutter that's for sure. How to deal with it? That's a tough one and I'm still trying to work this out myself. The phone is an absolute killer for me. You shou...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2014
2 points

Oh man I wish that was the case but I do work in fast food and people do get pissed :( I've had to deal with really rude customers telling me all kinds of things about my stuttering! ...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2014
3 points

Answering the phone, interrupting people, bringing up a new topic of conversation, or, strangely enough, talking to Siri or Google Now. Basically, if I have to start a dialogue it's difficult (but not...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2014
3 points

I go by a name other than my legal name and it's just a hassle telling people or establishments; like my work...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2014
5 points

Yes, I deal with this nearly everyday. Some times I get lucky and manage to force out my name, but most I have to say 'sorry, I have a speech problem'. Hardly anyone knows my name. Mostly I deal with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2014
9 points

Names in general are tough, because there's no substitute for them. My name is Michael. If I'm introducing myself, I *have* to say Michael. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2014
2 points

Just let them wait! Even if you have terrible blocks, so what? You're won't piss them off by stuttering. In fact, if you just keep going they most likely won't even care. Don't try to think of other...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2014
2 points

Yes, everyone knows my stutter I have the option just to do backline away from people or talking but I feel like I'm jut hiding from my problems so I force myself into the other positions. How come I ...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2014
2 points

If you can't hide it well you should tell them about your stutter. I've improved to the point where nobody needs to know about it. But at my first job I told them during my interview....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others