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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2014
2 points

Maybe you should pause and think for a moment before starting fights on a forum made to help people, Nukefudge. This is directly from Toastmaster's website: http://mediacenter.toastmasters.org/index...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2014
1 points

hm, don't buy into the "introvert" label too much. it's become popular in recent years, but my worry is that people are digging the self-identification part of it a little too much. we might as well ...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2014
1 points

I may have made myself sound a little more anti-social then I actually am. So my apologies! I am a social introvert. I like being around other people and doing group activities but it exhausts me to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2014
3 points

i can align with most of that. not that our stutters are the same, but there's such a huge overlap in the experience of most stutterers, i think. \- i actually came to remember a school teacher of mi...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
3 points

My grandmother who was a moderate stutter for her whole life swears by toastmasters. By the time I came around, she was mild. I stutter, I'm still terrified to go but I know I should. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
2 points

Hi BadJimFred. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Even though you didn't get through it, that's totally okay and what you said was very nice already. I think I get what you mean by the atypi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
1 points

I'll be honest, I was not able to get through your article at the moment because I'm on vacation with family and chasing my 1 year old around. What I did read of it I liked though. It's very thoughtfu...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
2 points

giving oral presentations is a skill regardless of whether one stutters or not. The best way to learn to manage stuttering while giving oral presentations is to give oral presentations. There is not...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
0 points

alright. when a stutterer comes to a stuttering sub, why would you recommend things that are not geared for the specifics of stuttering? OP will not overcome stuttering by learning to give oral prese...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
-1 points

why would OP come to a *stuttering* sub and ask about general performance? also, OP does stutter. "toastmasters" still makes no sense....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
1 points

but OP didn't ask about managing stuttering, but oral presentations. The public presentation of information through speech is a skill that requires cultivation (there are very few naturally gifted ora...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Public SpeakingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
1 points

We were reading some play in class and my teacher gave me a heavy part because when I'm not stuttering I'm pretty good at reading aloud. One day I guess I was stressed and I just couldn't get through ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionGenetic & Family FactorsBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
-1 points

anecdotal, innit. stuttering _specifically_ is not handled by "toastmasters". stuttering is not just a matter of "improving public speaking"....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
1 points

Yeah I stutter, It has improved a lot over the years but a presentation just tears me apart completely. I'm 19 and pretty broke atm, therapists cost quite a bit too, I don't see this being an option f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
3 points

I really don't have a story, but that is amazing that happened and also really cool your professor even said something. I have a presentation coming up and I guess I'm just gonna do it and stutter a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

Yeah, sometimes If you have easier words in front of the hard word then you can follow through with out any issues. It's a nice sigh of relief when it works :)...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

my worst cases were all after i graduated college. It didn't bother the listeners that much. I guess they felt it was unfortunate i was having such a hard time. I felt like total shit though. There ar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
2 points

I must concur with my weaselish colleague. Advertise first thing and don't hide it. Own it. They care a lot less then you do. Trust us, go forth, and kick butt. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

Damn, that must have been rough. Bad enough with oral reports, but the reading out loud by the rows must have been hell. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

I just about froze up completely during a presentation in English. My friends knew what was up. They didn't give me a hard time about it and by tomorrow, it may as well have been forgotten. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment