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postr/StutterNov 10, 2014
5 points

I sometimes skip the beginning letter of a word so I can say it

I sometimes skip the beginning letter of a word so I can say it Like when I'm at Jamba Juice and I order the Mango Madness.. I just say Ango Madness, I try to order it real fast so they won't notice. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2014
3 points

I`m 26 too, but i`m off to speech therapy. I can`t live with blocks and changing my speech anymore. ...

Therapy & ProfessionalSpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Seeking TherapyBlocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2014
2 points

I know this is only a mask technique but you can start with another word like I'm Andrew or try introducing yourself first before the other person has the chance to ask you! It works for me! ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2014
0 points

Definitely agree with you on making the call right away! I find the anticipation is usually worse than actually making the call. I usually build it too much in my head and think: "What if they judge m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2014
1 points

Totally agreed. That's similar to what I did too. I stocked shelves and would direct customers when asked, but most of the time I even went up to lost customers asking if I could help. This was nice...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2014
1 points

Someone has suggested to me before to take improv acting classes...Do you feel putting yourself in "risky" speaking situations broke down some barriers in your head in regards to your speech? ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Roles & PerformanceAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2014
1 points

> there could be other reasons for them not wanting to speak in public. Yep, that's the thing, I know a guy who hates calling, he is very good at speaking with people and socializing, but when i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2014
1 points

When I was young and still in primary school (think 1st/2nd grade) I had some speech therapy to get rid of the worst of it. However, I didn't really like it and found it counter intuitive. To me sitti...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Therapy ExperiencesAvoidance & SubstitutionRoles & Performance+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2014
1 points

Thanks again for the response. I'm relieved to hear that if I had a child he/she wouldn't mimic my speech and develop bad habits or a the wrong feedbook loop for speech that I have. In regards to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2014
2 points

you're on the stop. kind of a pressured filled situation for those who turn it into that. Plus, a lot of non stutterers arent very fluent in public speaking situations, even if they dont stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2014
4 points

Good news: It only takes two (one if you're in a pinch)! PS. Don't pinch the one you have left. PPS. Ovaries are an acceptable substitute, but double ditto on not pinching....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2014
1 points

Computer bench technician. I like being in the back room to work. But I do have to answer the phone to help clients resolve issues. I find the more I know about my trade, the more confident my speech....

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerPropositionality & WeightAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2014
6 points

Avoidance behavior like this usually doesn't have a positive effect on the mental side of your stuttering....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
1 points

I'm a video producer/editor, with a moderate stutter. The hardest part was of course the interview but after that talent speaks for itself (no pun intended haha). I used to work in customer service ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
1 points

I work as a Customer Service Rep for my company, actually. I take a deep breath whenever that phone starts ringing and I block all the other noises out, and I get through about 80-80% of my phone call...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
1 points

In Junior High, I sold newspaper subscriptions door-to-door. I'm not sure if I sold them because I'm the worlds best salesman, or if they pitied me. Either way, I made BANK. And by bank, I mean I made...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
2 points

I'm an IT project manager. I talk a fair bit, leading meetings and whatnot. There are some words that I always stutter on, like integrations but I work around it. I'm sure people notice it, but no...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
3 points

As far as relationships are concerned, it's healthy if that's the relationship's dynamic. If you are more a "submissive" type, and this works then go for it. If though you are usually more "dominant",...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
1 points

Oh no, I always go to Mc or Jack every day on my lunch break and order myself. It's only when she's there when she orders for me. I guess I don't want her to hear me struggling. :/...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
2 points

When I was 15 I got a summer job waiting tables. It was high stress and I was dysfluent. A big table laughed at me when I stuttered the specials but I chalked it up to them being fuckfaces. Overall, i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger