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postr/StutterDec 20, 2014
12 points

recent change in my attitude to my stutter

recent change in my attitude to my stutter my stutter has never really bothered me until recently. i first remember stuttering in middle school but i am fairly sure that is just when i noticed it and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringEmployment & Career+1 more
postr/StutterDec 17, 2014
8 points

Feeling a little down about a job interview

Feeling a little down about a job interview Today I had a job interview with the USPS to work as a mail carrier. I feel I didn't get recommended because I seemed a little anxious. That's because of my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterDec 10, 2014
2 points

Stutterers, within the next hour I'm having my final stage interview for a call centre sales job, I'll keep you guys updated.

Stutterers, within the next hour I'm having my final stage interview for a call centre sales job, I'll keep you guys updated. I'm a covert stutterer and I'm at the final stage of my call centre sales ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2014
2 points

Seems as if we have the exact same problem. I don't stutter near family or friends. If I feel as if I'm going to I just slow down or simply overcome the battle in my mind. It's when I'm talking to st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2014
1 points

Are you certain that you lack social skills? I have a severe stutter but I think my social skills are fine. When I have good days I'm very talkative and through texting I have no problems interacting ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2014
1 points

Definitely. If I had to self diagnos, I'd say it's stress/anxiety because like I said it didn't appear until after my marriage problems, and shows up only in stressful situations. It seems like I ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2014
1 points

Dealing with a stutter is similar to dealing with a devil in your mind. It's just like having a conflict with your self. Oddly enough, like you, I'm an extremely sociable person when I'm not in a st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & SubstancesCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Mindset shift
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2014
3 points

>I am learning how to avoid the situations that trigger it you don't want to avoid everything that could cause a stutter. more precisely, you don't want to develop the mindset that if something ca...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2014
2 points

The pain affects me in so many aspects of life. Stuttering has closed many doors for me in terms of job opportunities where customer service was a cardinal aspect. I had the potential to be a great sa...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2014
1 points

It took me a long time to get my english on a level of my first language. I experience more cease letters, where i just cant say the word. In my first language doing the type of tricks we do is easier...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2014
1 points

Haha, I also had idea of pretending to be mute when I was young. Yes, comparing yourself to other people is horrible, it sure is going to bring you down. I guess you have to walk your own path, always...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2014
2 points

Ahh, man. You hit the nail in the head. I completely understand what you mean and I have gone through and I am going through these same problems everyday. You know, at one point in my life I had thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2014
2 points

This is what I meant when I said that I "know all this", I know that people doesn't care whether you stutter or not, they are busy being themselves. And if they do care, how does that matter? The poin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2014
3 points

It is not ridiculous though. Dealing with a stutter is not easy. I have stuttered my whole life so I understand what you are going through. When I was young, I was petrified of speaking anywhere. I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2014
1 points

no need to laugh. i think many stutterers have a tendency to compound their problem with a bunch of escape/explanation/excuse maneuvers. that's not a good habit to have, because it can quickly become ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterNov 25, 2014
8 points

Any clever response to "heh, not sure about your name?" after exchanging names?

Any clever response to "heh, not sure about your name?" after exchanging names? I usually do a soft laugh because i know they will probably be embarrassed when they figure out that i have a stutter, w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterNov 22, 2014
9 points

Anyone else dreading Thanksgiving dinner with their significant other?

Anyone else dreading Thanksgiving dinner with their significant other? I'm talking about dinner with her/his family. I have a mini one today at her house. I hope it goes well. She has such a big fami...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2014
1 points

This is really something best left to speech therapists/pathologists, I can only speak from personal experience as a stutterer. Feel free to call bullshit, but I think there's a chance the speech imp...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilityAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2014
3 points

Hola Colombiano! I was in the same situation back when I was 12, now I'm 28. When I moved to the states I noticed I didn't stutter much in English as I did in Spanish. But now that I have become ac...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Physical TensionAvoidance & SubstitutionEnergy & Biological Rhythms+1 more
postr/StutterNov 20, 2014
3 points

Foreign Languages and Stuttering

Foreign Languages and Stuttering As a bit of background, I'm 16 and from Colombia. Spanish is my first language but My family and I moved to the U.S. when I turned 7. I'm fluent in both languages yet ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight