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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
4 points

I had friends and was cordial with the majority of people. My stutter still affected my time in school, I was never close with any of my teachers, afraid to ask for help so my grades were average. I...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
21 points

Hell yeah. Kids can be mean. The thing I hated more though was when teachers would give me the stares. You’d think an adult would know what a speech impediment was. I vividly remember one HS teacher c...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
1 points

I hate it more than anything that I can’t express myself. People think I am stupid when I can’t finish a sentence and they start to treat me like a little child. It messes with my self-esteem....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 28, 2024
18 points

Trauma caused by stuttering

Trauma caused by stuttering Here's a poem I wrote on the impact my childhood experiences with stuttering had on my psyche & personality... and how even those close to me fail to understand it's impact...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
2 points

Yes but the awkwardness and the anger that follows after you order it and that you think this person now thinks less of you just because you stutter is very discouraging...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterMay 28, 2024
31 points

Worst part of having a stutter?

Worst part of having a stutter? For me it would be the fact it’ll never go away. For SOME insecurities, you can hide them or fix them. Insecure about your weight? Hit the gym. Insecure about your acne...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
4 points

Yea I’ve had people say things like this to me too because I hide it all the time (substitute words, pause, etc) Sometimes people try to help by saying “stuttering isn’t a big deal” it’s almost like g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
2 points

I relate like I’m 17 about to go into senior year with no fuccing friends, no motivation and still a present expectance of people calling me a sped or giving a freaked out look...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
2 points

I have a presentation coming today in the first period of class and there’s people who laugh at me and others that get mad at me, (partners) who think I’m wasting time and affecting their grade...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2024
2 points

For me it got better . I remember when i was in second grade i used to stutter while saying anything. this one time i was speaking to my teacher and all i could speak was si..r...mer..s...ir and he la...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2024
5 points

Yes and because of my stutter people made fun of me because of that I became more depressed and anxious...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2024
19 points

Unfortunately I think mine has got slightly worse the older I got, definitely not better for me, maybe because I've never been able to accept it and I've always been totally embarrassed by it...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2024
7 points

During school days I didn't know about mental health but now I think about it I realised I was mentally not really in a good place. I can still feel how anxious I was every morning about how my day wi...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2024
0 points

Honestly, when I see my face in the mirror during speech blocks, I do horrify myself. Moderate to severe forms of stuttering is not pleasing to look at. Sorry but that's how many, if not most, ppl fee...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2024
7 points

ive always been really insecure about my stutter. talking to pretty women was out of the question. but some do genuinely find it charming (idk why)....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2024
14 points

This is so heartbreaking, that some or majority of people find us "different" and is not a good potential partner😢...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 23, 2024
10 points

Something I wanna ask this community

Something I wanna ask this community Does anyone here actually work really hard as student either in school/college for yourself or you work this hard so that you can be praised by your family or mak...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2024
16 points

Well, I guess they think most women will be ashamed of you when you stutter in public. You shouldn't care about those women. It's shallow and tells you more about them actually. The same is off-course...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2024
4 points

So relatable. At the risk of sounding like douchebag, in high school a girl would hit on me and ask for my number about once every month or so. Literally all of them lost interest and some ghosted me ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2024
3 points

Same. Always sucks when girls come up to me looking all excited or nervous just for me to watch their face go blank when I start speaking and lose all interest...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance