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commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
1 points

Just say your name stuttering all the way until it stops hurting or until you stop feeling people care about your stuttering. In my experience, most of the people don't care that I am a stutter and...

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commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
3 points

Seriously take the win, when I was 23-26, my ex use to say it was cute and I use to get upset because I was insecure. Years down the line, she genuinely liked me and saw the good in me....

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commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
2 points

It won’t get better until your relationship with your stutter gets better....

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commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
1 points

So from my own experience, no one who wanted to date me found my stuttering annoying or embarrassing Don't worry, I find it sweet when someone gets nervous in front of me and starts to stutter...

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commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
2 points

Eagerly waiting and working for that stage to achieve where i am not ashamed of it. Thankyou for you comment tho....

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commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
1 points

Thank you for your story. I do have friends that accept me and it is wonderful to hear that you have friends who accept you....

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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
2 points

Yeah, I do the same. Sometimes i know that i’ll stutter more in certain situations so i avoid those as well. And you’re right, learning to live with it is probably the hardest part every stutter has t...

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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
3 points

You’re right, it doesn’t have to. I know that it’ll have to try long and hard to get myself out of the effects this illness often cause. Considering going mute is the easy way out, however most of us ...

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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
2 points

I can definitely relate! My family isn’t supportive of my stutter either. The best thing is to focus on yourself instead and build you up. Come into community with other fellow stutterers if you haven...

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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
4 points

It gets better when you learn to accept it. Trust me it’s hard for me to accept it. I also have days where I’m fluent and days where I struggle, those days usually get me down. The best tip is to just...

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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
6 points

I don't. Someone else might, idk. My wife thought my stutter was cute when we started dating. Thank God I didn't roll my eyes and walk away. Take the win y'all....

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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
3 points

Would you find it cute if someone was in a wheelchair or using a walker? I don't see why a stutter would be any different. Most people I know probably have realized I stutter, but have never mention...

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Acceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
2 points

I don't like it being called cute either. It's like calling another disability "cute" when it's a hindrance to the person who has it. I'd rather someone acknowledge it exists and either says nothing...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
2 points

I like this attitude. Life for people like us may not be perfect. But each person's life is precious, so don't give up on it easily....

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commentr/StutterMay 10, 2025
5 points

Exactly, constantly reading to yourself and letting your words “flow like a river” even when wrong is part of the process. I’d liken being a stutterer to being physically short. Lets say you need to ...

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commentr/StutterMay 9, 2025
3 points

It doesn't get better. But you will start to give less fuck about it as time goes on. The less fucks you give, the less it will affect you and might just improve your fluency. I am 39 now and I freel...

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commentr/StutterMay 9, 2025
4 points

It does get better, but like everything in life you have to work on it every day. Just give yourself the “grace” to be imperfect. Don’t let it get to you, it’s a part of you; a part of us. It’s not...

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commentr/StutterMay 9, 2025
3 points

Super proud of you for never trying to hide your stutter 💪🏾...

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commentr/StutterMay 9, 2025
6 points

Yes it does get better. I’m in my mid/late 30s I still stutter/get stuck sometimes. For the longest time, I couldn’t even introduce myself and say my own name. Over time it gets less and less. The imp...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
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commentr/StutterMay 9, 2025
8 points

For me, it did get better. I had tons of avoidant behaviors. Somehow I just stopped obsessing over my speech, I still stutter, but I don’t react as much. I feel better. Sending love and encouragement ...

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