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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2018
4 points

I just stopped talking unless I had to. Stuttering is a horrible handicap. How do you explain to someone you can't even say your name sometimes because you stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2018
9 points

True! I heard about that. I don’t like avoidances though. I order in person to get over my fear. But thank you for the suggestion....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2018
4 points

If you get the Starbucks app, you can order and pay through it and it will be ready at whatever time you desire. This helped me tremendously since one of my favorite drinks is hard for me to say. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 14, 2018
47 points

Success ordering at Starbucks

Success ordering at Starbucks So I wanted an iced latte because why not? The issue is that in Starbucks I always get nervous since they ask for names and sometimes I get stuck in words that begin with...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2018
1 points

So slowing down is not enough and may not even be sufficient. Yup, that's about what I said (nevermind those who don't stutter, that's irrelevant for our purposes). And also, you seem pretty close to...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2018
2 points

I can stutter even if I talk slowly. This is just to say, slowing down won't necessarily work (for everyone, at all times). It also actually happens to be one of those things that people tend to say ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2018
1 points

i mean, if you like biting, you can keep doing it! i don't believe that i should tell you how to speak or anything. for me, it was a trick that kind of helped at first and then it got worse and worse ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2018
1 points

You're fluent then, but how do you feel about your stuttering when you do so? That's often the problem with these tricks and avoidance, they feed the fear of stuttering hard....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2018
3 points

“Not avoiding” isn’t a strategy “not to stutter”. In fact, it’s the opposite. Fluency strategies by definition hide or prevent stuttering from occurring. The point of not avoiding is you’re being your...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMar 12, 2018
5 points

Confused

Confused I have noticed something. Whenever I speak with tricks and avoidance of words, most of the time I'm fluent. Few months ago I started reading books about stuttering, and read all the stuff abo...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterMar 12, 2018
3 points

What are people's thoughts on the mcguire program? Im thinking of taking part in it but i want people's thoughts first..

What are people's thoughts on the mcguire program? Im thinking of taking part in it but i want people's thoughts first.. [deleted]...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2018
1 points

My girlfriend doesn’t care really all that much. She only makes fun of it, in which I do the same thing. We have a good time making fun of it. As for your situation, try and start a conversation wit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2018
1 points

Thank you - this is helpful. In this case, I’m pretty sure the “introductions” will be the go-around-the-room type; maybe I can somehow finagle my way to going first. :)...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2018
1 points

Take control of the situation and introduce yourself to people before they introduce themselves. I find that my anxiety jumps through the roof when someone introduces them to me and I have to respond....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2018
2 points

Hmm my stutter is pretty bad, so even introducing myself would be difficult. I’ll give it some thought, thanks man....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2018
6 points

Well I talked to her about two times before I said anything but it was like simple questions so I never stuttered. But one day I asked her and her mom for a ride to the store during lunch one time so ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2018
5 points

I don't know what Discord is, but if you want to talk over the phone, give me a call. You can private message me your phone number and times available. And just to introduce myself, I'm a 43 yr old, ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2018
1 points

It helps me if I say one syllable of my name so like a shortened version. For example Vincent to Vince, Patrick to Pat, Ricky to Rick. This might help you since it’s just a quick thing to say instea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2018
2 points

Same as telling a joke. The more you stutter, the less funny it gets :(...

Community & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Humor & Community ToneAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2018
25 points

>When you want to roast someone but then realize you will never deliver it perfectly so you just don't say anything....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution