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commentr/StutterApr 23, 2014
1 points

I've only met 1 person who knew I had a stutter (or at least was comfortable telling me) and that was only because a family member had it too. Otherwise I always get the "are you okay" or "is somethin...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2014
1 points

Sounds like it's worth a shot to me. The anxiety is the worst. I was dealing with a lot of that before the phone interview, and of course once the stuttering starts getting bad it just makes the anx...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2014
1 points

My biggest fear is having a phone interview. Even when colleges were calling me and they were brief conversations, there were always disfluencies. Glad the actual interview went well, but did you tell...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2014
1 points

As a junior in college who gets drunk before phone interviews/conference calls to deal with stutter anxiety over the phone, I commend you on your achievement. Hopefully I will get there some day. I am...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentMedication Inquiries
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2014
1 points

I have been in this situation, but instead I was just stuttering like crazy and it made a bad impression; I almost felt like the interviewer thought I was on something or just hung over or something. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 21, 2014
5 points

Does anyone know some effective relaxation tehniques??? (I need to presentate by tomorrow!)

Does anyone know some effective relaxation tehniques??? (I need to presentate by tomorrow!) So I have a pretty bad stammer, especially when I need to presentate something. Tomorrow I will have an exam...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2014
1 points

This provokes the thought, do you believe that we're too critical of ourselves when we speak? When we don't hear ourselves, we can't pick out our speech flaws, but when we can hear ourselves we're too...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2014
1 points

I think it might be more about us feeling safer, like we have more leeway than about other people being too consumed. ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2014
1 points

Yeah I know, but I just wish people were more considerate of things they are not educated about. I think it is a common courtesy which people does not seem to act upon, more often than not. But I thi...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 12, 2014
4 points

Am I the only who doesn't stutter in very loud environments?

Am I the only who doesn't stutter in very loud environments? So, whenever I'm at a football or soccer match for example and the environment is super loud, I simply do not stutter. When I'm at a loud b...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Environmental TriggersAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2014
2 points

Could be because you're thinking about it too much. I know that right now, if I was to magically learn the basics of Arabic and go to the an Arabian country and speak it to someone, I'd have no hesita...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringExperiential Association
postr/StutterApr 8, 2014
13 points

denied job because of stutter

denied job because of stutter I went in for an interview at a big chain of stores to stock shelves. My stutter has become so bad that I can not even get one word out, or say my name, or really anythin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2014
2 points

I was very nervous at first and physically shaking... I found it hard to say my name but I held myself together and worked through it. I hope I did okay. ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2014
2 points

Maybe if you use a slight accent? Try to be confident about it, tell yourself over and over the evening before that everything will go fine, don't think about the "if" factor. Regards!...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2014
2 points

Maybe if you use a slight accent? Try to be confident about it, tell yourself over and over the evening before that everything will go find, don't think about the "if" factor. Regards!...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2014
2 points

Wow i know exactly what you mean, i don't have a really bad stutter. I only stutter when i am under stress or thinking about stuttering and still then it is a minor stutter. I also believe that my stu...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2014
2 points

Ha, I love that determination! And I hear ya. I read a quote the other day (don't remember where) saying something like "You probably wouldn't stutter if you didn't know you had a stutter" and that ju...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2014
2 points

New here and this is my first post so here it goes... Confidence definitely has something to do with my stutter. I stutter more when I think about stuttering. When I stutter on a word it gets added...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterMar 30, 2014
10 points

For all of those who stutter..

For all of those who stutter.. do you ever feel as if you know that you can stop stuttering? This probably won't apply to those who stutter because of a neurological problem, but I believe that most o...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2014
3 points

I need to save this and read through it whenever I'm having a hard day. Thanks for being an inspiration! I'm struggling with the fear and anticipatory anxiety relating to my stutter. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment