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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
2 points

Yep, exactly the same here. When I'm with family or friends and I'm feeling comfortable and relaxed, I don't stutter. On the phone or talking to strangers in person? Horribly bad stutter...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
1 points

I'll be honest, I was not able to get through your article at the moment because I'm on vacation with family and chasing my 1 year old around. What I did read of it I liked though. It's very thoughtfu...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
2 points

Yeah, I always stutter a lot more when I'm nervous or I'm reading something scripted....

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
2 points

giving oral presentations is a skill regardless of whether one stutters or not. The best way to learn to manage stuttering while giving oral presentations is to give oral presentations. There is not...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
2 points

Yeah its completely normal. When your hanging with friends you don't care if you stutter, versus at work you might care it will effect your job performance or something....

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
10 points

Pretty much the same for me. When I am able to speak without stuttering it happens by accident. If I concentrate on my speech I am more likely to stutter. If I'm with friends feeling relaxed I quite r...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2014
1 points

Dropping out of university for fear of oral presentations seems a bit extreme to me. Taking some time to get perspective might be good. Perhaps you should email the professor to find out the requireme...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

I just about froze up completely during a presentation in English. My friends knew what was up. They didn't give me a hard time about it and by tomorrow, it may as well have been forgotten. ...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

I work at a McAlisters Deli as a cashier and i know exactly what you mean and feel. I have this one older guy that comes in like every day that has a stutter too we love how irritated people get when ...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
4 points

dropping out is probably only going to make things a lot worse, including your fear. What I hear a lot of professionals who stutter tell me what helps them is they practice like crazy and really make...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2014
1 points

I'm in the same boat brother, I was always the one who would sit at the back of the class (in the corner) and try hide behind the people in front of me so I would not get asked a question. I always dr...

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2014
2 points

Check this thread: http://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/1pzmdw/to_those_of_you_who_stutter_what_is_the_ideal_way/ my reply to your question is posted in there if you want to look. But it sounds l...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2014
2 points

Yes i am having this exact problem. I've been stuttering since i was a kid but only recently have i started to have major problems with saying my own name. I have avoided introducing myself to people ...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2014
1 points

Just plow through it head on. I'm exactly where you are. Maybe we're suckers for punishment, but I too have purposely found jobs where communication is important. I used to work as a journalist; imag...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2014
3 points

Yes a new job brings out the worst of my stutter that's for sure. How to deal with it? That's a tough one and I'm still trying to work this out myself. The phone is an absolute killer for me. You shou...

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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2014
2 points

Oh man I wish that was the case but I do work in fast food and people do get pissed :( I've had to deal with really rude customers telling me all kinds of things about my stuttering! ...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2014
3 points

Answering the phone, interrupting people, bringing up a new topic of conversation, or, strangely enough, talking to Siri or Google Now. Basically, if I have to start a dialogue it's difficult (but not...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2014
1 points

I don't know enough about you to speculate on why it's happening to you specifically, but a lot of factors can increase a disfluency, such as stress or anxiety or insecurity. For what it's worth, I ...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2014
2 points

Yes, everyone knows my stutter I have the option just to do backline away from people or talking but I feel like I'm jut hiding from my problems so I force myself into the other positions. How come I ...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2014
2 points

Thanks for both of your comments. I guess acceptance has to happen on several levels; let's say, we can accept that there is little we can do but embrace ourselves with our broken speech, and thus n...

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