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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2024
7 points

Stop, breathe, say a different word. Not worth my mental health struggling on refrigerator, when fridge works just as well. Unavoidable words, like my name/city, I usually avoid (or drop the first l...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2024
0 points

I do well with masking my stutter, but sometimes there’s no avoiding it and it comes out. Usually people just look at me like I’m having a stroke or something 🤷‍♀️...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2024
0 points

Yes, still occult makes sense. Covert is more mainstream though. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2024
3 points

Disclosing is for the stutterer, not for the other people. If you have a covert stutter with silent blocks, disclosing will ultimately improve your life tremendously...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2024
1 points

I would tell him if it’s moderate to severe because he’ll find out anyway. So what’s the point of hiding it? Trying to hide it the entire date can actually increase nerves and make it worse....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2024
-1 points

If you’re hot I wouldn’t even worry about it. All jest aside, you can? Transparency is cool. “Sometimes I stutter, so just wait”...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2024
0 points

I've had people be shocked to hear me stutter when I know for a fact I've stuttered in front of them before. I worked with a guy for a year before he noticed it and I definitely did it hundreds of tim...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2024
0 points

Likely you have a mild sutter , a covert stuttering and have learned to handle it. Its more common than we think . Good for you! Its not my case as having a more severe stuttering....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2024
3 points

I think it depends on how severe your stutter is. If u cant get out 2 words without stuttering, you should tell him earlier. If most people dont know them just keep it to yourself. Ive been with my gi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2024
0 points

Yep..I was angry with myself for the longest time..then I was angry at others.. lol…bottom line it’s no one’s fault. We are unique. I will tell you a funny incident. Hope that cheers you up. I was...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2024
1 points

Darn, niche stuttering. I have an issue with stuttering only when trying to explain or describe something. Other than that I'm 99.5% fluent. Its like covert stuttering because few people see it. When ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & WeightTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2024
8 points

It’s extremely common and likely due to having a covert stutter where you have learned to hide your repetitions by word-switching. Your name is the one word you cannot really switch. I’m willing to ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2024
0 points

I speak less than 100 ish words than you lol HAHAHA i can relate. I just speak whatever gets me by from my work. They still think i can speak fluently but i don’t, i just speak less HAHA. Anyway i’ve ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
8 points

I do my absolute best to hide it. Word substitutions, avoidance, etc. But I’m 95% fluent at work and 85% fluent at home (more going on, having to nag the kids, etc)...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
7 points

Married 10 years and together 15 and my wife had no idea I had a stutter. Even my father once commented that he was glad my stutter was cured. I had to tell him it will never be “cured” I’m just good ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
2 points

“Occult” stuttering is way more sinister though! Like we’re actually casting spells instead of just stumbling over words....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
3 points

When I was a kid my stutter was much worse than it is now; I generally pass as fluent unless I’m talking to one of my parents, ordering through a drive through window, or just really tired or stressed...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
1 points

You are SO right. I just miss-remembered. I think there are many who live with the secret fear of being discovered. The stigma is so negatively ingrained that it’s almost like having a hidden past cr...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
5 points

I know, as an adult I am equipped to handle those situations but as a child I was not and it was cruel....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
4 points

My teachers did make me do presentations in front if the class. It was humiliating! I was coming here to tell teachers not to traumatize us like that when we can do the presentation privately!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment