this questions is kinda off putting. you could've filled in the blank with anything regarding lack of control — eating disorders being one of them. ive personally struggled with one on and off. lack of control, definitely. bdsm / sex practices, no idea. im an asexuel women so this definitely doesn't apply to me. I have no idea what the answer is and I have no idea why you'd ask this in a space where there is children who are looking for support. its not 100% on the parents to monitor their children 24/7. kids are sneaky and can easily bypass what parents put in place. the responsibility may not be on you completely but don't come into spaces with minors and post questions like this. they're going to be exposed to everything eventually but thats not an excuse to say whatever you want.