​ That is one of the reasons that we stutter: negativity. We think about all the times that we have failed in our speech and those memories are constantly in your mind. The key is to get rid of the negativity and replace it with positivity. First read the book by Dale Carnegie, "How to Win Friends and Influence People." Read a story a day. Takes you about 10 minutes or less. It will change your life. If you want to work toward fluency, you can. You can break the chain. Families complain since everyone in their family is a loser, you HAVE to be one. That's the devil telling you that lie. A few friends of mind who defeated stuttering are on site r/StopStuttering