The beauty of reddit. Where we can express our own experiences in confidence. But yes my experience coping with my stuttering when on dates is to make it know after she has pointed it out. I will not actively tell them that I have a speech impediment unless asked. In terms of coping with it on dates, may seem controversial. But initially I portray confidence about what I'm saying to my date and that does take the focus away from you yourself noticing your stutter and her even noticing it.