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22 Y/O about to finish college, and I’ll tell you this. Unless you hit a super long speech block (Which is ok, I’ve done before and I’m still here to tell the story) or just have a super excessive stutter (Which is also ok) people generally won’t notice your stutter or care that much bro. In the moments when you can’t overcome your stutter, you just have to learn to rock those scars per se and integrate it into your personality to work for the better of you. Your actions and how you carry yourself speaker louder than words ever will, and if you truly are a Amazing, fun person to be around having a girlfriend or friends will never be a issue, it’s all in your head first before it turns physical. I say you just say fuck it, carry yourself confidently when talking to girls and focus more on the substance of the conversations and what you bring to the table rather than the actual words that are coming out your mouth. This is how you’re supposed to carry yourself as a person anyway and you notice a lot of bullshit people you can avoid by looking through this lenses. Like I’m talking about really look a man/girl in the eyes and see the truth. This will also help with your stutter. As for the speech itself, I would try reading aloud everyday, about 10-20 minutes at least so fluency turns habitual over time and prove to your subconscious you actually can speak. You got this!