This is cliché, but... You gotta like and love yourself first. If you don't find yourself attractive, neither will other people. Focus on you. Hit the gym. Put yourself together. Get a look. Work on making you better. Not for others, but for yourself. For a lot of us, we define ourselves by our stutter. But our stutter isn't the problem to others that we think it is. Our stutter is more of a problem to our self. And our self esteem. I assure you, if you improve your relationship with yourself, external relationships will improve.