I look at it as it’s just the cards we are dealt. You can’t change them so why hate them. Also the fact there’s alot of people out there dealing with much harder cards than ours. Once you’re able to accept stuttering is just a small part of who you are then you’ll be able to love yourself and finally be at peace. Plus it’s kind of a tool to determine what people around you actually love you for you. In my experience a lot of people I’ve encountered have the patience and compassion to let me speak and not put me down for it. In return those positive experiences has helped me build more confidence and really limit how much i stutter .