Not the same message at all. Look I'm not trying to be a dick. There's a guy in this subreddit which talks about life being hell for him, how he's desperate just to have a friend. Struggling so much with his own life that he thinks people with stutters having children is disgusting. I don't want people to have their difficulties dismissed. I don't think it's helpful to tell people their struggles are "excuses" and "bullshit" It's important to realise having a stutter is a real burden to bear but you should still strive for your goals inspite of it.