I try not to. My bf doesn’t, it doesn’t surprise him his aunt is this way. She likes to gloat to her friends about “helping people” when she just does it to make people think she’s this “great person”. she’s extremely prideful and doesn’t do anything out of the goodness of her own heart, just to make people think of her as this saint that helps the needy/ less fortunate. When she’s this horrible angry person that hates being nice to people.