Why is this so important to you? To answer your original question, be confident and fun. So what you stutter. Find things about yourself that you can control. Go to the gym, make sure your clothes and appearance are stylish. If you’re like me and lack style find a female friend or relative and enlist their help. Don’t take their criticisms on you personally. tell them to be honest and just play to your strengths. Above all else, learn to like yourself. If you don’t like you no one else will. Most important advice I want you to take from this whole thread is this. Never say no to hanging out. Be outside always. I don’t care if you’re just taking a walk through the mall. Always be out around people. You never know when you’re going to meet the right person. Maximum exposure. Hang out as much as possible. If you can help it don’t ever be home on a weekend. Also watch this channel: https://youtu.be/w572HfRcvqE Always carry around matches and coins. If you’re brave enough a deck of cards. There’s nothing like a cool trick to become the life of the party. Scam school has a lot of cool tricks that are ice breakers. You can opt not to do the ones that require a lot of talking. My favorite is the one where it looks like you swallowed a flame and you breath out a lot of smoke. I went to EDC one year and I had the whole crowd while we were standing in line cheering me on as I did that trick. The coin tricks are especially useful for getting one on one time with a person.