https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/8tssyx/stuttering_and_girls/ This was posted a little bit ago. Read it. Most of the problem isn't the stutter. It's a handicap, but there are lots of handicaps out there, and pretty much everyone has at least one. Much more damaging is how you think of your stutter, and what you let it do to your confidence/self image.