Yea but you know nothing about my life so how can you judge it if it's fine or not? My life may seem fine to you and it's because your life is harder, it's just a less harder life may seem fine to you because you had to deal with more stuff. But just because you think it's fine doesn't mean it's not for me. I'm having a hard time with life, it may not be as hard as yours but it's still hard. Thats why the phrase "All lives matter" is hated, it may sound like its including everyone but it's dismissing and ignoring the hardships of African Americans and african americans in general, in other words its excluding the african americans while the BLM includes them. What you're basically saying is a guy that lost all his limbs saying to a guy that lost both of his arms or legs to "get a grip your life is fine."