Honestly I just plow through it, I usually keep the notion “if they can’t accept me for who I am, why am I even gonna continue to date them”. Usually it goes pretty well, I stutter, they giggle, and they still suck me off after. I used to think stuttering was a hindrance; it’s sloooowly growing on me to be a motivator to just be myself. Goodluck and cheers op!