A great friend of mine some years ago who knows I stutta......as I was leaving a favorite restaurant...I asked him "where ya going dude!!!" He said "therapy!!"....I knew what he meant-he meant well.....but It kind of annoyed me...he was putting himself in my place--he meant "You should go to therapy!".......he wasnt going to therapy!!! I went to many therapies even before he suggested I go to therapy.....after all the relapses....I am not going to another therapy....and Im just even more worse off!!!!