I do feel negative emotions about my birth gender, but more than that, it's a general sense of wrongness and feeling like I fit being female more. Certainly not a trauma response to me, and if it is caused by neurodivergency, then that wouldn't actually change anything about having dysphoria. In a study of [28,000 trans or formerly trans people](https://transequality.org/sites/default/files/docs/usts/USTS-Full-Report-Dec17.pdf), only 8% detransitioned, and of those, only 5% of those who detransitioned did so because they realized that gender transition wasn't for them. Everything else was due to pressure, harassment, or financial reasons. I think a 0.4% chance of regret is pretty great. To avoid beating around the bush, the reason you think that there's "a lot of detransitioners" is because conservatives elevate those extremely statistically rare people as a grift to try to prove their point. Try looking at the actual science instead of trying to convince random people online based around culture war talking points. p.s. that survey dissemination I linked is a wonderful resource for learning all about empirical data about trans people, would highly recommend to anyone