I hate how communities like this tend to aggregate people venting in a way that makes a black pill mentality seems normal. Stuttering is a disability and it sucks but so does depression, poverty, and a litany of other things that are going to crop up for someone dating today. Saying your life is cursed and distorted is ultimately a way to avoid accountability. You're not doomed, it's just hard work to deal with self hate. It's also hard work to acknowledge our suffering doesn't make us special, and other people are suffering too.