Do yall ever wonder how on earth do people take you seriously?

Do yall ever wonder how on earth do people take you seriously? Like i have a lot of friends but this thought has only now crossed my mind. Like when im telling a joke or giving advice im now wondering how do they actually laugh or like admire what i say. Its kinda funny to think about because i think we as a community are way more judgmental to ourselves than people around us. Do yall ever get this thought?