commentr/StutterDecember 18, 2024

Content

It depends on what you mean by that. I do work, attend all my doctor appointments, and make calls when necessary. Do I enjoy it? Most of the time, no. Do I purposely take the easy way out when I can? Yes. I don’t socialize, don’t have a relationship (and don’t want kids), and have little to no friends. Is that because of my stammer? It definitely plays a part, but I think that’s just my nature. I don’t have any interests outside, I’m happy being alone, and I enjoy owning my time. I’m 28. I think, these days, that’s not really weird. Most people are chronically online anyway. I’m just saving money and enjoying my time in the ways I want. What exactly am I missing out on? Everybody is different. Just because I’m a PWS doesn’t mean I’d be a social butterfly if I wasn’t.

Themes

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships

Subthemes

Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life