I think Vulnerability is the Key word to embracing our stutter (even me) i think it's a scary concept because people fear being open because when you're open you leave always leave room for Rejection and Rejection sucks. It's definitely a Reward for being so open because you can filter out what's for you and what isn't for you but i guess because we stutter and we feel so strongly about our stutter that when something "Goes Wrong" we use it as a scapegoat and think we're the problem when that may not be the case. it's definitely a journey though that's for sure