commentr/StutterDecember 24, 2021

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Last year, I thought I could never make friends or won’t get a job. cuz i stammer. I thought it’s just so hard to survive having stammer. But when i look at my self now, it’s totally opposite cuz i made few friends and got a job and i am healthy, that’s what matters. What i’m tryna say is that eventually you will be fine because this is what it’s like to live. You get sad and then happy, it just continues. Just ignore thinking about what the future is going be like, concentrate on the present time and try to improve step by step. For me, I started going to gym so that at least i could say that i’m healthy and have a good body :) I try to study 📚 hard and be consistent. On my leisure time, I play musical instruments or learn piano, singing with karaoke. When i feel really sad, i just talk/rant to myself about what’s wrong with me and things that I can improve on, and sometimes i even cry standing infront of mirror. After ranting, i feel like a new person lol cuz i feel like i’ve figured out on what i’m going to improve on, what i’m gonna do next etc. It feels like a free self therapy. And if you don’t got friends, it’s totally fine because when you become optimistic, work and improve on yourself, you tend to attract people due to your positive energy and you will get a friend eventually. Be optimistic, don’t worry, don’t overthink just live in the present moment.

Themes

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability

Subthemes

Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception

Codes (2)

socializing_one_on_oneemotional_state