Being positive is important but I’ve come to realize that how positive people are about their stutter is relative to how severe their speech is. More severe, the more negative people are. And I think they should be allowed to feel bad about something that makes life that much more difficult. Everyone I see that is more positive about their stutter have stuttered less than me. Of course there are outliers, but this is just what I see. But yea being positive more than negative is better, but I think people should be able to vent as well.