Men make themselves the victims?, that's a new one, because as far as I know it's women in the west that still claim to be oppressed despite having the same rights as any man. At the end of the day though the OP got what she wanted and is now dividing us when we should be supporting each other in our fight against stuttering because at the end of the day we're all human so who gives a fuck about each others gender?, and if you do dismiss other people's problems due to gender then you're an idiot.