Take them both off a pedestal. Whenever you see an ‘attractive’ girl, remember that they poo, have bad morning breathe, wear a bunch of make up, could have a range of hidden issues, etc No need to put any girl on a pedestal. In fact, I think that when women know that you don’t value them as much or perceive them as ‘lower than you’, somehow they are more attracted to that person. For example, girls are not attracted to a person who is extremely attracted to them, such as a creepy pervert who is over the top in love with them. Be the opposite of a creepy pervert and remember that any attractive girl ain’t all that, don’t put them on a pedestal at all. They are just another human who has to poo, lol.