I'm down for an honest conversation. You are most certainly allowed to be sad or angry. No where did I suggest otherwise. How much of your time are you spending sad or angry? That's something only you can answer. And more importantly, do you spend an unhealthy amount of time with your sadness or anger? How much do you try to be charismatic and personable? How do those efforts compare to your time spent with your sadness or anger? Why can't you approach women? The idea of a much easier life is BS. There's no promise to anyone of an easier life. So long as you measure yourself against a figment of your imagination as to how easy others have it, you're going to come up short. You need to be happy with yourself. And when you find that happiness, you'll find these other questions easier to answer. You should want to be better than you are. What's stopping you? You’re more than your stutter.