you should return your college degrees because anyone whos educated knows: 1. stuttering is a spectrum and affects people differently 2. different people have different lives, pressures, and support groups or lack there of 3. trauma/mental health affects everyone differently and is dependent on many many variables you see someone who is going through a ton of pain and trying to COPE with NO SUPPORT GROUP (and im sure they tried to find some but were just pushed out) and you say, without knowing the full story or having anything to compare it to, "yeah i got mine, where is yours". insane. "college administration and high school teacher" isnt something to brag about. don't you think you could've done better? or been happier? and you're a woman. you certainly don't think you didn't settle in life or have anything that made you think about the variables you were born with? its one thing to complain and refuse to do anything and even that has its own merits, but since OP is expressing his qualms and asking for help, then you're sadistic to mock them in their time of need. my god.