I got it ! So basically what you are trying to say is that a person should stutter and not hesitate about it and do not try to hide it or something and after some time he/she will develop confidense and overcome it, if i am not wrong but my argument is if the main goal is to develop confidense while talking and to convey the message or your thoughts without any hesitation is that you can also do that while learning your stutter and playing with it. The best thing that worked out for me (and i am the guy who used to got stuck on every second word) was that i learned a whole lot of vocab and started playing with my stutter, i start to become crystal clear in my thoughts first and then speak and that made me more confident. I accept that it will not be easy at first but after some time it will become your lifestyle and you wont even think about it, your mind automatically switches between the words and you will notice that your stuttering has reduced to an extent and that will give you a confidense boost that you cant even imagine. So, all i am trying to say is that there is definite way to deal with this stutter and if i have done it You can too !!