commentr/StutterMarch 29, 2021

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Hang in there. I definitely know what you mean, I felt that I was never going to get a job in sales or other roles where intense, fast negotiation was required, as I saw other peers get really intense jobs. But I'm also sure that the person with the biggest issue with your speech is you. I know it seems impossible but if you can learn to be confident in yourself, despite your speech, you'll be half way there. One thing I find helps is letting people know (even if it's crazy obvious) that I do have a stutter, and every now and again I'll be a tiny bit slower at saying what I need to. Maybe you'd like to go further, let them know the kinds of situations it affects you most in (interviews) and how much you do it on a day to day level once you are settled in to put them at ease. If you get the vibe they think you aren't smart because of your speech, you could also jokingly mention the fact that *The average stutterer’s IQ is 14 points higher than the national average* [https://psychcentral.com/lib/stuttering-myth-vs-fact#2](https://psychcentral.com/lib/stuttering-myth-vs-fact#2) But I genuinely don't think a potential employer (who isn't a massive anus) will care about your speech as long as you can prove you have the requisite skills for the job, are a nice person and will fit in well with the team.

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Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career

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