Kids don't sugarcoat things, they say it like it is. They do it all the time and that is great! Sometimes it helps to have a mirror shoved in my face. It keeps my selfesteem up and in check, my confidence strong and unwavering. It helps me see my goal and see where i'm at in the process. 2 steps ahead, 1 step back. I will get there and so will everyone here on this subreddit.