If I'm eating out, already discussed with people I'm eating with what I want to eat (like, I'm FOR SURE getting XYZ, not just this looks good or might get this), and it's someone I trust and love enough then I don't mind it at all. If it's something like asking for directions or something where myself and others are all trying to accomplish a goal together and need to ask for help, I also don't mind. But if I'm trying to speak on my own and have a conversation with someone, PLEASE don't try to guess.