I want you to take a paper and pen. Write stutter in the middle. Write all the positive qualities you have that you want people to see you for. Then say to yourself “yes I stutter but i am also (the positive qualities.) Now do you want to be known for your stutter or for your other qualities.. that’s on you. If you focus on stutter, that’s all you’ll show to the other person. If you focus on other qualities, that’s what other people will see, or at least feel.