We all have different families. And it does matter if your stutter makes it physically sometimes impossible to say what you want to say, and *how* you want to say it. For some, talking is extremely physically draining. Some cannot make impromptu time-sensitive quips in a timely manner (when said, they end up just being confusing). Some have such hard/painful blocks, , we automatically have trained ourselves to say something different, which feels like we are being dishonest with ourselves.