I think the whole point to life is to live it to your fullest potential. Your state of mind and your perception of reality has a lot to do with how happy or miserable you go through life. Some people CHOOSE happiness. To get to that happy place they CHOOSE to believe that there are some upsides to their stutter. They are trying to be positive about a situation that they have no control over. If you want to fill your head with dread and live your life in this negative space, let me tell you bro, you're going to miss out on a lot of happiness. People don't like negativity. People are attracted to confidence and positivity. Keep that in mind.