For me it's hard to read too much on this subreddit. A part of me understands the negative thoughts. They'll always come back when I have a bad phase. But they also fade away and I'm so glad when they do. But reading how people can't change their perspective and they don't even seem to try to... I get angry. It's like an adult saying to a child "look little one, there's no hope for you. No need for trying. Just give up and suffer". It's so wrong. And sad. I'm so thankful for having the opportunity to take lessons in speech therapy for free. I live in germany btw. Others don't have these opportunities. But I feel like some people don't know how important it is to fight for their well being. The stutter isn't the only problem then.