There’s a reason that they say if you can make it there you can make it anywhere. I think New York is a reflection of one’s self. My wife and I were talking about it. If you are an outgoing person New York is most lit place. But if socializing isn’t your thing, New York is a nightmare. I don’t mind the overcrowding because I put on my headphones, I play on my switch and I’m don’t even notice that I’m stuffed like a Sardine on the A train. I know it’s a lot tougher for women though. That’s why they say New York Women are mean. They have to be to deal with the harassment. My nephew moved to New York from Las Vegas and felt the same way you did. But he’s very shy and doesn’t go out. I’m like bro… how are you going to have fun if you don’t go out?