Because many people here erroneously believe/fear listeners hate listening to us, let’s educate them with grace and compassion. Maybe let’s give sources and links from professional SLPs trained in dysfluency. In fact, some of these professionals suggest the source of what you call “international abelism” is actually a form of PTSD. (Unable to find exact relevant links from here bc I need to get ready for work. But browsing these sources will affirm what I’ve suggested) https://www.stutteringtreatment.org/blog/listener-reaction-bingo (Page w credentials from above site https://www.stutteringtreatment.org/staff-board) https://www.stuttering-specialist.com https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1x4rlucELK0 Parry gave a very similar speech to NSA conferences few years ago. He definitely references the concept of trauma/fight/flight in regards to the perception of listeners.