Cant agree more with u. Matter fact thats what i did in 9th grade I had this stutter that made me scared of making new friends, but one day i said fuck it and joined a group of people in the cafeteria and got them to be my first friends in highschool, and from then i became pretty popular and became more and more confident, i still have the stutter but life isnt as bad as i thought it is. Some years after I graduated high school which was like 1 years ago with these exact friends that I challenged my self to talk to from the start. Anyways people just give up sometimes which is why they feel like life is unfair, bc believe me having a stutter is much better than living in poverty for example.