I understand where he is coming from. All of the crap I’ve been through makes me who I am. It’s only recently that I’ve become grateful for the hard times. From that was borne a strength I would have never known otherwise. I couldn’t see this place where I am now before or during the hard times so I totally get the eye rolling too. So..... million dollar question- is there any way to transfer what I’ve learned by going through hell to my kids without them having to suffer? My kid who stutters, well, yeah, I can’t protect him so I’m focusing on teaching him to deal with life head on. But my other kiddo