Same. 4 years active infantry, 4 years reserve. Like you said, they're going to fuck with you. That's just what it is. They fuck with everyone, for everything. I don't know how, but in basic there was actually a guy in my platoon who stuttered 100 times worse than me. So the drills were usually on him instead of me. I felt bad but at the same time relieved. I hope you're able to talk to a different recruiter about joining. It may suck a little while you're in, but you make life long friends while in. Plus the benefits once you're out are great as well.