To never give up and that you are more that your stammer. It affects me sometimes and go from been really bad to mild. I still have travelled got the job I want. Date girls, which are clearly too good for me, have great mates and I fucking love life. Who gives a fuck if we take longer to get our words, we only have one life so, it's the cards we are dealt, so we have to play them as best we can. Don't give up brother, you will find you way!!!